Heong -- Author of the
Friend To Girlfriend Secrets
You have a great girl beside you. She tells you she likes you and you like her back. She leans on your shoulder and shares a drink with you. Anyone looking in your direction would assume you’re a couple. But you’re not. You’re just friends.
There are so many reasons why you’re in the friend zone. You may have started your relationship in a platonic manner and never got around to telling her that you have ulterior motives for becoming her buddy. You may have grown up together, or you belong in the same circle of friends.
Whatever the reason for your platonic relationship with a girl, you can change that, but only if you muster the courage to do so. What can you do to turn things around? The first step is to stop making excuses. What we’re going to talk about now are the excuses you make whenever you think about the prospect of dating a girl friend you’ve always been attracted to.
“I don’t want to lose the friendship.”
Do you think she’s going to avoid you if you tried to confess your feelings? There are so many guys that think this way, which is why it became so difficult for them to get what they want. The more you dwell on this, the less likely you’ll muster enough courage to make the first move. You’re giving up the friendship for something better: a romantic relationship. You’re gambling on the fact that she already likes you and friendly feelings could turn serious. If it doesn’t work out, you can remain friends. Even if it’s awkward for a while afterwards, you will soon return to your normal friendship anyway.
“She doesn’t see me as a man.”
Maybe she doesn’t see you as a potential boyfriend, but unless you directly stated that you’re gay, she knows you’re a man. What you want to do now is to let her know that you’re attracted to her. If she understands that the friendship you shared so far is no longer enough for you, she would consider the possibility of being your girlfriend.
There are many ways of showing a girl that you want to be intimate with her without being rude or destroying your friendship. Just let her know the real score. It’s better than keeping your silence and bearing with the fact that she may be considering someone else because she thinks you’re never going to be a prospect.
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