Heong -- Author of the
Friend To Girlfriend Secrets
Moving out of the friend zone is one
of the best things that could ever happen to a guy harboring
unrequited feelings for a particular girl. But the question
is: where would you go after the girl noticed that you’re
not the just a homey buddy that she can call when she feels
like talking to a friend? You can take the new relationship
into two different directions, each with its own set of pros
Serious Lovers ASAP!
Being lovers in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship means
you’re a couple and the relationship is monogamous. This is
very ideal, especially if you’re ready for this kind of
commitment. Married couples that started out as ‘just
friends’ are a dime a dozen.
On your engagement party, you can talk
about how you never knew you had feelings with each other
until you found out that you did, and then you decided that
you’re meant to be together after all.
When you’re on the same page about this level of
relationship, great; but what if you’re not? If one person
is serious and the other is not, there is a chance that one
will cheat and even the friendship you’ve built over the
years will suffer.
But even if the future still seems
uncertain, at least you’re not hanging around her like a
hopeful puppy wondering if she will ever notice. After
you’ve transcended the ‘friendship trap’, you’re her lover,
and that’s the most important thing.
Sex Friends First, Lovers Later
The reason you ended up being just her friend is because the
girl has never considered you within her strike zone. A girl
needs to be able to imagine herself in an intimate position
with you (kissing, snuggling or doing something more) for
her to consider you for anything remotely sexual. You didn’t
turn her on, but that too can be changed.
If you make your move by telling her
that you’re sexually attracted, you get the wheels turning
in the direction you want. At the very least, you’ll make
her consider the possibility of getting in bed with you.
So, what happens when you do turn her on and things start to
become sexual? Does this mean you’re committed? Once you’ve
tried it with your friend, you can continue to a serious
relationship, or you can simply be sex buddies.
Being sex buddies can be fun and
romantic, but as you know physical intimacy can lead to
deeper feelings if done often and if the sex is good. Good
physical chemistry may be a good basis for you to continue
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